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Old 03-08-2004, 10:18 AM
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Are you racist in your attraction?

I can see when black women are good looking but its very very rare that I actually find them attractive and the same goes for Asian women.

Are you the same?
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Old 03-08-2004, 10:31 AM
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Although i can see that some are good looking, its really rare im attracted to asian men
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Old 03-08-2004, 11:07 AM
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To me saying you aren't attracted to a certain race is no different than saying you don't like blondes or brunettes. It's a subjective preference! It's not necessarily 'racist'.

To be frank, I don't 'hate' black people at all, but there's something about women of other races that are attractive that black women don't have.
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Old 03-08-2004, 11:23 AM
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i would also agree it was a preference. i am caucasian but only find white guys, asian guys and hispanic guys attractive, thats it.
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Old 03-08-2004, 12:02 PM
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i'm not at all...i've dated white guys, black guys and asian guys.

You can see i'm not fussy!

my friends call me The Red Cross cos i don't discriminate
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Old 03-08-2004, 12:56 PM
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It's a subjective preference! It's not necessarily 'racist'.
I agree. I find too that when I see an attractive Black or Asian person, I often think of them in terms of European features ... perhaps light-skinned, finer bone structure etc. But while I prefer Caucasians generally as far as sexual attraction is concerned, it makes no difference to me what race they are socially and intellectually.
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Old 03-08-2004, 12:59 PM
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i dont think who you are attracted to comes with an equal oppotunities contract however i do know what you mean. One of my friends is white and really only goes for chinese guys although she tells me she apprieates beauty elsewhere . Personally because i come from a very mixed race background i rarely see colour which can be a problem during media studies exams but like bongbudda is rare that i find some races attractive! I think at the end of the day whoever you find attractive you find attractive, simple as you cant fancy everyone, although! And i think that doesnt mean your "rascist" in your attraction, at the end of the day its just whatever floats your boat!!
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Old 03-08-2004, 01:05 PM
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Old 03-08-2004, 01:41 PM
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i have never actually fancied any1 from a different race, but im not racist! its just bcos ive never actually known anyone from another country/race...i spose its all down to where you live - i.e. often larger cities have a more mixed population
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Old 03-08-2004, 01:49 PM
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I have never went out with a black/asian or chinese guy. Why?
Very rarely I see ones round my age. I have found ones good looking in the town, just walking down the street but I very rarely mix with them as theres hardly any of them here to mix with, if you know what I mean.

I do fancy ones of telly like, if that counts?
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Old 03-08-2004, 01:53 PM
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I dont think its racism, its just what you prefer, as even though im not attracted to asiain guys, i have been attracted to asian girls!
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Old 03-08-2004, 03:50 PM
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I dont think i'm racist, i have black friends. But in all honnesty I personally couldnt go out with a black guy. Ive been out with turks, I've been out with greeks, and Ive been out with white guys. But Ive never once found a black guy to be atractive. I mean I can see that they are good looking, but I couldnt shag them.

I spose its got something to do with they way I was brought up, although my rents always toldme that everyone is the same on the inside, my primary school wouldnt let in other race's. there was one black girl in the whole school and i didnt like her cos she would sweat to much.
My only mate at church when i was about 8 was black, she was nang! but then we went to her house and she wanted help washing her hair and i was scared that her colour was gonna wash off. I just couldnt get my head round it. I was a very confused child.

I'm guessing that its something to do with that, that i cant shag a black guy, its not that i think that the colour will rub off on me, Its that Ive never seen a black penis, I cant imagine it with out getting all baffed and tbh I guess I'm rather scared too.


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Old 03-08-2004, 03:55 PM
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I've never been out with anyone from a different race. I can see if a black/asian ect. man is a attractive but I don't actually fancy them. I can see if a woman is attractive also but again I don't fancy them.

Like kaptain pikkard said it's just like being attracted to someone with a certain hair colour. It's not that you're being racist, it's just personal preference
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i havent had the chance to go for someone of a different race so i wouldnt know.
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