Brining A Shy Girl Out of Her Shell

[69drew69]

Anyone want to chime in on a minor issues I'm having?

My girl and I have been together over a year. We have very good sex; we both come every time. So far so good right?

Here's my minor (very minor) dilemma:
She says and does things outside the bedroom that lead me to believe there is a more freaky side to her; but when we get in bed she chickens out. Examples -
***she has some of the nastiest hardcore porn I've seen...and I'm not a newbie;
***she says things like "I would do ANYTHING for you...if you want my ass you can have it" and "I want your cock in my mouth so bad" etc.;
***when I do get a little forceful/rough (not choking or hitting...just holding her wrists or pulling her hair) - she LOVES it;
***in conversation about homosexuality she mentioned that she made out with a girl and when I explored further to see if she like it she quickly changed the subject;
***she has several dildos and vibrators but rarely brings them out - although I know she uses them.

So here's the question - she is shy, she loves sex, she has a freaky side that she explores privately...how can I bring her out of her shell?

Thanks for reading and for your comments.

[SuzyCreamcheese]

doesnt sound like she would take much persuading.
Sounds like youre the one who needs to get over the shyness and just DO it

[advice_confused]

tbh i dont see the problem here just try and talk to her and make the first moves

[patience]

Do everything you can to make her feel sexy and good looking. Maybe she is self concious?

[advice_confused]

just coz she might b a little bit shy
doesnt mean shes self concious or anything

it could be his problem that she might not feel comfortable with him because he might expect to much of her