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10-05-2007, 04:43 PM
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To be shy? or not to be shy?
That is the question!
In the bedroom department which of you are shy and which of you aren't and in what ways? I know everyone is different and some people prefer their partner to be shy and others don't. Is it a bad thing to be or a good thing? Sauce xx
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10-05-2007, 04:48 PM
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Depends how I'm feeling. I can be quite shy, but then at the same time I can also be quite confident. It depends if I'm having a fat day or not! I'm definitely more confident when I dress up in a basque and stockings though- cos all the bits of my body I don't like are hidden, and I know that him indoors loves it
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10-05-2007, 05:00 PM
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I'm not shy and I prefer him not to be as well. Just makes for more fun. We're both comfortable with each other and have no problems being naked or asking/doing what the other wants. We know what turns each other on and are quite prepared to do that and try new things. We sometimes play the dominant and submissive things for fun but it's not really who we are, just roleplaying of a sort then.
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10-05-2007, 05:13 PM
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I'm not shy about sex, I never have been. I hate shyness in the bedroom, I can deal with having to do a bit of coaxing but if someone's way back in their shell then it just sucks the joy out of everything. For me, anyway.
No holds barred is the way forward, you only live once and most people only get about forty years of shagging in... if they're lucky 
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11-05-2007, 10:48 AM
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I can't sleep with someone I'm shy around. Sure I get a little bashful the first time, usually because I tend to get butterflies around the people I fancy anyway and I occasionally get the giggles. But once the initial "Oh good lord this hottie's got his bits near mine! This is nuts!" has passed, I'm pretty confident. You have to be feeling secure and confident, surely, to bump uglies with someone?
ETA: I do play shy and reluctant sometimes, because it's fun to make him persuade you in various ways  but on the whole I like sex far too much to waste time blushing.Last edited by Butterflykisses : 11-05-2007 at 10:50 AM.
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11-05-2007, 01:59 PM
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I wouldnt say shy .. if im feeling a bit self concious i can be a little but most of the time im not shy at all .. quite upfront to be frank especially if im drunk. but sex is better sober i think
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11-05-2007, 02:52 PM
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11-05-2007, 04:27 PM
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I'm staying with the other half tonight and he'll be wanting some action (not had any for a week) but because of my skin thingy with this allergy I've had, I'm feeling none too confident about stripping off. Any tips? Other than wearing a full catsuit with a hole for access?!
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11-05-2007, 06:07 PM
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Tell him how you're feeling about it? I doubt he'll see it as such a problem as you do, and if he knows you're feeling unattractive he's got the chance to pay special attention to making you feel beautiful again
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11-05-2007, 08:09 PM
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Shy. Beyond logic. I'm so shy that I haven't slept with anyone yet. Grrr.
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11-05-2007, 11:19 PM
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Not in the least bit shy, but I've been with the guy for two years so I should hope not!
I can get a little embarassed sometimes (generally when certain bodily noises interrupt), but he thinks the blushing is cute and we can laugh about it. I guess he's a tad self concious afterwards as he always pulls his boxers straight on, but thats it.
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