2003-2007

[Nutter]

Me and my ex have been on and off since the end of 2003, we decided to go 'on a break' recently. I couldn't get as close to him as I used to be able to, and although we are good friends, I don't think I can go out with him again, not for a while anyway. I feel like it is me that has to do all the work, like, organise meeting up, where we go, what we do, and if we make a 'move' then I'm the one who did it first... He never really seems all that fussed about ANYTHING, and that kind of irritates me.

Then there is this guy at college, whom I have only known since september, who appears to be interested in me, but he has issues he needs to work out... I have to admit though, after years of being picked on, getting male attention is quite new and exciting, I don't know whether to go for it with him, maybe just as a fling, or carry on without the burden of relationships...

What do you all think?

[otter]

Originally Posted by Nutter

He never really seems all that fussed about ANYTHING,

all relationships are a two-way process

Originally Posted by Nutter

but he has issues he needs to work out...

depends what the issues are and if you are comfortable with them

[pill 'ed]

I say go for the fling.

I would anyway. What do you have to lose?

[Nutter]

I guess I could go for it, however the issues he has are mainly to do with his past girlfriends...what I can gather...amoungst other things. He is seeing a counsellor, and I think a psychologist aswell, which is good I guess, he's not a psycho, although he thinks he is, he is lovely really. I think I will just have to wait and see what happens.

[otter]

Originally Posted by Nutter

he is lovely really.

you like him. go for it.